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New Zealand, take two: North Island

My previous post, Mewe Zealand, detailed our adventure on the South Island and in which I promised a damning video.  Well, against my better judgement and sensitive ego, I’m gonna live up to my post.  Aptly titled, laurenjumpsoffabridgescreaming, enjoy.

Did you know that your body was capable of such a guttoral scream?  I didn’t.  I was calm as a cucumber until that baffling sound came shooting out of the depths of my visceral organs.

So, North Island, Kiwiland, here goes.

After spending time on the South Island, where the population is very low and freedom camping abundant, we were, at first, a bit underwhelmed by the North Island.  The Cook Strait crossing from South to North was spectacular, though it did come with a hefty $500 ish dollar pricetag (campervan came with us).  We bee lined up the middle of the island (time constraints), for the Rotorua area.  We ventured through Waimangu Thermal Area and were then recommended to go to Waikite Valley Thermal Pools and hot damn (literally and figuratively), what a find.  While it would have felt even better were we the Euro couple who had been bike camping through NZ with their 4 year old and 6 month old, our lazy, luxury camping selves thoroughly enjoyed.  You role up (or down actually) through winding roads into a STEAMY valley that looks like it must be void of life and to your shagrin, inside said steamy valley lives a hot springs (camping) resort.



One great feature of the North Island that you don’t get as much on the South are the cultural roots of New Zealand; the Maori people, to whom we can credit a language that trips up even the most seasoned of travelers (and locals).  Onward and upward, we then headed through the rolling hills of Hobitron (where the Shire in Lord of the Rings was filmed – and still exists as an amusement part of sorts), which were everything you’d hope Frodo Baggins dreams were made of, and more.  And North we drove, until we got to the Coromandel Peninsula where we happened upon both the Driving Creek Cafe and Driving Creek Railroad (two different businesses, both located on Driving Creek Road).  Both of which you must do if visiting the Coromandel.  Deliciously thoughtful, slowly prepared food of all types (with a fantastic kids play area out front) and a miniature train line built by the hands of the ceramist who bought the property and constructed the railroad to cart clay from the mountainside.

And our one and only (illegally) parked campsite:

And then, we found paradise (with a way better view than the amazing view shown above).  Little Bay, on the east side of the Coromandel Peninsula.  It’s a calm little bay, flanked with hills that are speckled by sweet vacation homes, with a lazy stream winding its way into the water (and a spectacular place for young kids to frolick).  The problem with Little Bay (for travelers – an asset for locals) is that it’s very remote and there really isn’t anything around – though we did figure out that there is a campground just north of it (we ended up parked on the property of some locals who welcomed us in like we were family).

And, we got to go sea fishing for the first time (and each caught more fish than our captain and first mate, combined – beginners luck).

I can’ t be sure whether Denali is looking at the fish in disappointed disgust (for me), or if he’s saying “Mom, you’re a badass fisherwoman”.  As difficult as it was to see the fish die for my [eating] enjoyment, I take comfort in the fact that I did just that and that he/she helped nourish my body; it wasn’t in vein little fish, it wasn’t in vein.




Finding Inspiration in the Ordinary (and sorting through the web of motherdom, kindof)

OH BOY.  Is the ordinary reality of life really so boring that I can only write about the extraordinary unreality of adventure?  This question plagues me and my newly found blogging hobby.  How easy it is to get caught up in the day to day act of survival and let your spirit dry up (like my poor sugar snap peas), and subsequently, your inspiration to create.  I need to remind myself to turn on the sewing machine and make a few stitches and to realize that while my ordinary life can seem monotonous and stagnant, it’s those very moments in between that create room for the extraordinary.  It is the journey, after all, not the destination, that will define your life.

To be a human being is a complex problem but to be a mother is a whole new magnitude of clusterf&%$ed-ness.  And I do believe that it’s a cluster totally unique to a mother; one that father’s [generally] don’t experience (to the same extent).  Women, as I see it, are expected to wear many hats.  We’ve risen above the status of housewife and sit side by side our male counterparts, but are still required to be the more domesticated of the two, which means getting dinner on the table and clean laundry in the closet.  To be a mother is to be constantly torn in two directions.  Guilt becomes a normal feeling.  And as if figuring out/fulfilling our life’s purpose wasn’t difficult enough to manage with the constant needs of slightly parasitic children, the preschool debacle and the possibility that I’m poisoning my kids brains by feeding them whole wheat bread (and a smattering of other stuff), is enough to make even the sanest of moms fall off their rocker.  Geesh, it’s no wonder I’d rather live in the unreality of adventure.

This is how the water boils, for me.  I basically live straddled in two worlds under constant siege with myself; living the life of a domestic goddess (albeit not quite that gracefully), dreaming about [somehow creating a career] with a backpack on my back (or perhaps my front, with a baby strapped to my back ).  Reconciling the sedentary nature of having kids has been a difficult prospect for me.  Which I think is why I’ve found this blog so inspiring.  Maybe I don’t have to choose, maybe I can have my cake and eat it too.  Gluttonous you say?  Selfish perhaps some are thinking?  But I don’t see it this way (except when I do – after all, why on earth would my brain allow for such a cut and dry answer, I meant siege when I said it).  Kids happened to me.  I didn’t plan for it (initially – number one oh-so-surprising, number two oh-so-planned); yet I find them integral to life as I know it.  Why can’t my journey be their journey?  Does choosing life in the direction of kids have to mean suburbs, conventional school and soccer tournaments (or a derivative therof)?  Or could it look like an RV, homeschool, and learning about and gaining passion for anything and everything under the sun (or a derivative therof)?

But then comes in the convention in me, waltzing in like the elephant no one invited.  She screams, “but, the kids need routine and consistency in order to develop proper social skills and become confident, secure adults”.  They need “Montessori preschool, or wait, was it Waldorf, or good god, maybe Reggio Emilio” in order to become the people I hope them to be.  In the end, I think that my hope is that a supportive, loving family unit is all they’ll really need.  The constant questioning of how they’ll become the best people they can be is dead ended in ambiguity; who the eff knows, including me, what formula will work best?  You can read and read and analyze and think and think and analyze some more and end up a crazy maker spouting your revelations on your blog and creating a whole new line of crazy making, paranoid, mothers.  Or, you can give yourself a break and let faith guide you.

In short, if you can relate to my cluster, let your journey and the journey of your children be one of the same, rooted in love and support, open to exploring and engaging in the vast world around you… at least that’s what I’m going to do… for now.

Go turn on your sewing machine (or other proverbial device) and fill your spirit.

Be inspired and create room for the extraordinary.